Dear John,
When my husband (“Ron”) and I got married over 20 years ago, we agreed to have an open marriage. We knew that while monogamy was great for some, it just wouldn’t work for us. [Read more…]
Ask John: “My father wants to bring his porn star girlfriend to my wedding”
Dear John,
Next month I’m getting married. I’m obviously very excited about it. I’d be a lot more excited about it, though, if my father didn’t want to bring, to the most special day of my whole life, his porn star girlfriend. [Read more…]
“Our daughter might marry a black man.” (And, “I’m in love with one of my employees.”)
Dear John,
For over a year now our daughter, “Ann,” who is of Northern European descent, has been dating “Hank,” an African-American man. Their relationship has grown such that we believe Hank’s proposal of marriage to Ann is imminent. [Read more…]
My boyfriend doesn’t want me going to college
Dear John,
I’m a high school senior. Last month the college I most want to attend (for its awesome special education program) awarded me a full scholarship. I was so excited. My boyfriend, however, was not. He definitely doesn’t want me to move 300 miles away. [Read more…]
“Should I have a threesome with my husband and his friend?”
Dear John,
I’m not sure if this is the type of question you’d normally answer, but I figured I had to ask. [Read more…]